You don’t have to be a master in the art of seduction to know when someone likes you. Here are some ways attraction unintentionally reveals itself.
You don’t have to be a master in the art of seduction to know when someone likes you. Here are some ways attraction unintentionally reveals itself.
#Her eyes
There are so many things that a woman’s eyes can tell you throughout the entire courtship process.
For example, if you are standing across a room from a woman that you’re interested in and your eyes meet, notice if she holds eye-contact for more than a few seconds. If she looks away immediately the chances are she’s either shy or not really interested. But if she holds steady eye-contact for more than two or three seconds, you can definitely take that as an invitation to approach. And if she locks eyes with you more than once, she’s practically screaming for you to get over there and talk to her
#Her Lip Nibbling
This is one of the sought-after signals by men from women. This can be a deliberate action from her, but could also be just a casual, meaningless gesture. Therefore, before you take it as a good sign, you need to assess further. She is probably interested if she does this while listening or thinking so your attention will be transfixed to her lips. Observe more and wait to see is she licks her lips. If she does, then your hunch is confirmed. Lip licking is not just a subconscious gesture to make you notice her lips. Remember that a woman’s mouth also becomes dry when she is feeling excited and aroused.
#her hands
Quite often when a woman finds a man attractive she will start fidgeting around with her hands. She might start playing with her drink or start fiddling around with her jewelry. This kind of fidgeting signals a good kind of nervousness that she’s feeling and is a very powerful indicator of attraction that you should watch out for.
Another thing that you should pay attention to is if and how a woman touches you. Quite often when a woman feels attracted to a man she will “accidently” let her hands brush against his or even sometimes innocently touch him on the wrist or forearm.
#Comfort signs of attraction
If a girl isn’t feeling attraction and is feeling closed-off and uncomfortable, her body language will reflect that. She’ll fold her arms or perhaps place a drink/bag in front of her chest. Putting a barrier in front of the chest is a defensive posture that shows a lack of comfort and openness. The opposite of that, when a girl unfolds her arms or moves that drink or bag to the side, is a sign of comfort and openness. This is part of the body language of attraction as it’s a sign she feels relaxed and is comfortable connecting with you.
#Her Hair Signals
A woman is drawing your attention to her if she tosses her hair from her shoulders and face to expose her bare skin. Unconsciously twirling hair strand on her finger and/or slowly running fingers through her hair are also signs of interest. Apparently, if she jerkily touches her hair, she could be feeling impatient or embarrassed. Do not feel hopeless, though. You can fix things by not being over dominating as you speak to her.
#Her legs
Women who are not interested in flirting with you will usually keep their legs crossed tightly together. It’ll almost feel as if she’s rejecting any sexual solicitations from you and protecting her privacy. Of course, there are exceptions to this, but usually if a girl is into you she will often cross and uncross her legs repeatedly in front of you. This again is a sign that she wants you to notice her physical attractiveness and that she’s very much into you.
#A matter of distance
When you start flirting, the distance between you and the partner plays an important role. Open your eyes and observe the distance he maintains, or doesn’t, between you. It is generally very revealing.
The best distance? A little less than a meter. Any closer and you enter the zone of intimacy which is reserved for lovers, for family and for close friends.
#The signs of refusal?
He turns in another direction, crosses his arms, rubs his neck by pointing his elbow in your direction. If he turns his head toward you while keeping the rest of the body turned in another direction, it is also a negative message.
#Her eyes
There are so many things that a woman’s eyes can tell you throughout the entire courtship process.
For example, if you are standing across a room from a woman that you’re interested in and your eyes meet, notice if she holds eye-contact for more than a few seconds. If she looks away immediately the chances are she’s either shy or not really interested. But if she holds steady eye-contact for more than two or three seconds, you can definitely take that as an invitation to approach. And if she locks eyes with you more than once, she’s practically screaming for you to get over there and talk to her
#Her Lip Nibbling
This is one of the sought-after signals by men from women. This can be a deliberate action from her, but could also be just a casual, meaningless gesture. Therefore, before you take it as a good sign, you need to assess further. She is probably interested if she does this while listening or thinking so your attention will be transfixed to her lips. Observe more and wait to see is she licks her lips. If she does, then your hunch is confirmed. Lip licking is not just a subconscious gesture to make you notice her lips. Remember that a woman’s mouth also becomes dry when she is feeling excited and aroused.
#her hands
Quite often when a woman finds a man attractive she will start fidgeting around with her hands. She might start playing with her drink or start fiddling around with her jewelry. This kind of fidgeting signals a good kind of nervousness that she’s feeling and is a very powerful indicator of attraction that you should watch out for.
Another thing that you should pay attention to is if and how a woman touches you. Quite often when a woman feels attracted to a man she will “accidently” let her hands brush against his or even sometimes innocently touch him on the wrist or forearm.
#Comfort signs of attraction
If a girl isn’t feeling attraction and is feeling closed-off and uncomfortable, her body language will reflect that. She’ll fold her arms or perhaps place a drink/bag in front of her chest. Putting a barrier in front of the chest is a defensive posture that shows a lack of comfort and openness. The opposite of that, when a girl unfolds her arms or moves that drink or bag to the side, is a sign of comfort and openness. This is part of the body language of attraction as it’s a sign she feels relaxed and is comfortable connecting with you.
#Her Hair Signals
A woman is drawing your attention to her if she tosses her hair from her shoulders and face to expose her bare skin. Unconsciously twirling hair strand on her finger and/or slowly running fingers through her hair are also signs of interest. Apparently, if she jerkily touches her hair, she could be feeling impatient or embarrassed. Do not feel hopeless, though. You can fix things by not being over dominating as you speak to her.
#Her legs
Women who are not interested in flirting with you will usually keep their legs crossed tightly together. It’ll almost feel as if she’s rejecting any sexual solicitations from you and protecting her privacy. Of course, there are exceptions to this, but usually if a girl is into you she will often cross and uncross her legs repeatedly in front of you. This again is a sign that she wants you to notice her physical attractiveness and that she’s very much into you.
#A matter of distance
When you start flirting, the distance between you and the partner plays an important role. Open your eyes and observe the distance he maintains, or doesn’t, between you. It is generally very revealing.
The best distance? A little less than a meter. Any closer and you enter the zone of intimacy which is reserved for lovers, for family and for close friends.
#The signs of refusal?
He turns in another direction, crosses his arms, rubs his neck by pointing his elbow in your direction. If he turns his head toward you while keeping the rest of the body turned in another direction, it is also a negative message.
